First off, let’s get this out of the way: the word pursue is kind of weird in this context! It almost sounds like this is an advice column for people who fancy themselves predators seeking prey. This is certainly not that! What we’re doing here is, instead, trying to educate people who are interested in someone of a different ethnicity or who are perhaps already dating someone of a different ethnicity. We’ll discuss the proper way to court, and we will help you understand the fine line between sexual attraction to people of a certain ethnicity and fetishism of a certain ethnicity. So without further ado, let’s get this started.
How to pursue maintain an active relationship
When you are just starting an interracial relationship, remember – the least important thing to consider is their ethnicity! There is nothing wrong with being sexually attracted to certain aspects of their physique – even if they are associated with their ethnicity – but don’t pursue them solely for that. When you are going into an interracial relationship, remember that their personality is what you are seeking, not something about them that you find sexually appealing.
Once you have reached a comfortable point in your relationship, just take is slow and don’t let things get to you. Treat them as you would want to be treated! The other important thing to remember is that there are a lot of people in all races who will look down upon you, as interracial coupling is frowned upon in some communities and cultures. If you truly love the person with whom you are in a relationship, you will be able to push through all of that.
The difference between sexual attraction and fetishism
The difference between sexual attraction and fetishism might seem small, but it’s actually quite noticeable once you notice what it looks like. Generally, fetishism of ethnicity can be observed in several forms, such as:discussing (for example) black person as a subject, rather than discussing a black person as an individual. When pursuing an active relationship with someone of a different ethnicity, it is important to make sure that you are pursuing them because you are attracted to them, not because you are attracted to the idea of them. So if you are pursuing a black person, make sure it’s not because you associate blackness with “big butt” or “large penis.”